An
elderly Chinese woman had
two large pots, each hung
on the end of a pole which
she carried across her
neck .
One
of the pots had a crack in
it while the other pot was
perfect and always
delivered a full
portion of water.
At
the end of the long walks
from the stream to the
house, the cracked pot
arrived only half full.
For a full two
years this went on daily,
with the woman bringing
home only one and a half
pots of water.
Of course, the
perfect pot was proud of
its accomplishments.
But the poor
cracked pot was ashamed of
its own imperfection, and
miserable that it could
only do half of what it
had been made to do.
After two years of
what it perceived to be
bitter failure, it spoke
to the woman one day by
the stream.
"I am ashamed of myself,
because this crack in my
side causes water to leak
out all the way back to
your house."
The old woman
smiled, "Did you notice
that there are flowers on
your side of the path, but
not on the other pot's
side?"
"That's because I
have always known about
your flaw, so I planted
flower seeds on your side
of the path, and every day
while we walk back, you
water them."
"For two years I
have been able to pick
these beautiful flowers to
decorate the table."
Without you being
just the way you are,
there would not be this
beauty to grace the
house."
Each of us has our
own unique flaw. But it's
the cracks and flaws we
each have that make our
lives together so very
interesting and rewarding.
You've just got to
take each person for what
they are and look for the
good in them.
So, to all of my
crackpot friends, have a
great day and remember to
smell the flowers on your
side of the path!