Therese Harman

November 28, 1925 - January 18, 2006

Extraordinary mother, gracious mother-in-law, cherished Oma

A life-long learner, passionate teacher, exuberant watercolourist

Independent thinker, radical Christian, defender of social justice issues,

Consummate listener, volunteer with boundless energy for many causes,

Keen dragon boater, and a woman ahead of her time

Definitely Intoxicating!

HER MOTTO FOR SUCCESS

To laugh often and much;

To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;

To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;

To appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;

To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition;

To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived;

This is to have succeeded.

~Ralph Waldo Emerson~

SHE TRIED TO HELP US UNDERSTAND......WHAT IS DYING?

I am standing on the seashore.

A ship at my side spreads her white sails in the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.

She is an object of beauty and I stand and watch her until at last she fades on the horizon.

Then someone at my side says "There, she has gone" -

Gone where?

Gone from my sight - that is all.

She is just as large in the mast, hull and spars as she was when she left my side....

The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me - and not in her.

And just as the moment when someone by my side says, "She is gone,"

Others take up the glad shout - "There she comes."

That is what dying is - A horizon and just the limit of our sight.

Attrib: Henry Van Dyke (1852-1933)

THERESE WAS NEVER STOPPED

from living life to the fullest despite breast cancer twice, thyroid cancer and then ovarian cancer.  She finished her last eight watercolors just weeks before she died to bring the total to 1500 painting (the numbers mattered to her).

She lived her life with the wisdom of an old soul and the joy of a child!

THERESE LOVED TO SAY

"Too much of a good thing is wonderful"

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well-preserved body,  but rather to skid in sideways,  chocolate in one hand,  wine in the other,  body thoroughly used up,  totally worn out and screaming....Damn, What a Ride!"

She did just that and I am so glad to call her "friend". 

Music: Prayer of St. Francis - Phil Coulter with words by Roma Downey

 

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