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Silk and Sandpaper
How compatible are these two people? These two prints offer a typical example of what happens in many relationships. The woman's hand is on the left, and the man's on the right.
If you look at the texture - which consists of all the many tiny ridges all over the hand - you will notice that hers is very fine, and his is very coarse.
Because of her very fine texture (which makes the print blacker since the ridges are so close together), she tends to be overly sensitive and to take everything personally.
Because of his coarse texture (the ridges are wider and farther apart from each other), he is more blunt in his approach and doesn't realize he may hurt others, and especially her.
These two people were together for 6 years, in an on again off again relationship. Even though they loved each other very much, their totally different reactions resulted in constant fights ("How could you say that to me?" and "I can't open my mouth without you complaining about me!"). They ended up breaking up.
The fingers show that she is more dignified and more concerned about how she appears to others (stronger forefinger) while he loves to share and is very charismatic (stronger ring finger). He also likes to have a good time without worrying about the consequences, while she prefers to dream in her own world (this can be seen on the mount of Luna, the lower corner opposite to the thumb).
On a more positive note, the hands in general show that they are both good-looking, honest, kind-hearted and intelligent.
Their differences are probably what attracted them to each other in the first place, but also what kept them from having a happy, long-lasting relationship.
Knowing that nobody is perfect and that opposites do attract, what could they have done differently?
Their relationship could have been an opportunity to develop what they didn't have. For instance, he needed the refinement that she could have given him. Also, by loving him unconditionally, she could have learned that "his bark was worse than his bite". Had they listened to each other, they would have improved tremendously. They both had the perfect teacher but didn't seize the opportunity to learn. It is so difficult to change!
Palmistry can be very helpful in identifying where the relationship could be improved. And then, the persons involved can do the work... if they want to! I once read that "A problem is an opportunity in work clothes". I believe that relationships are also opportunities to grow, but only as long as we want to grow. This way, the sandpaper gets polished, and the silk doesn't get damaged!